How to survive Valentine’s day

To answer the question in the title, we first have to answer this question:
How has Valentine, the day of love, turned into a lose-lose situation?

How to shame a guy – Manipulation 101

When I wrote the first post about shaming, I ended by saying that the upcoming post, i.e the one you are reading right now, should not be considered as a “how to”-guideline. Apparently I changed my mind, because this is now exactly as how everything below is phrased…

Shaming – Manipulation 101

I am splitting up the blogpost on shaming into two parts. What you are reading here is part one, and it discusses shaming in general.
Shaming = suggesting or explicitly stating that a person’s behavior is reprehensible or that the person as a whole is reprehensible because of some undesired behavior.